Inner Work Starts With A Conscious Choice: To Commiit

Commitment is a huge theme in my readings. 

I used to think I had a fear of commitment but as I got deeper into this work, and learned more about souls and purpose, I began to understand that we actually aren’t afraid to commit. 

We resist commitment because we aren’t clear on what it is we are committing to. 

Here’s a real life example:

One of my client’s recently shared that she’s ready to start a family. Her and her partner did extensive lab work, she started taking prenatals, she’s tracking her ovulation, acupuncture regularly - all the things she feels she needs to do to jumpstart the process. While she may be doing everything on the physical side, there’s a spiritual and energetic component she didn’t address. 

What was she committing to when she set the intention to start a family?

Was she committing to being a supportive and emotionally available mother? If so, is there anything blocking her from showing up in this way - ancestral wounds, previous traumas, imposter syndrome? Any of these things could create an energetic block that needs to be cleared before conception. 

Was she committing to being a present parent? If so, is her career prohibiting her from having the flexibility or freedom to be fully present for her child? Establishing solid foundations provides spirit babies with comfort allowing them to feel more at ease during the conception process.

Making a big change requires a big investment in your energy - clearing, releasing, healing, and creating expansion to welcome in what you are ready to commit to receiving.   

Wanting something and committing to something hold two very different frequencies. We can want something and never get it, but if we commit to something we are telling the universe we are ready and willing to do anything to receive it. 

Do you have a fear of commitment? Three things to ask yourself:

• What am I actually committing to?

• Do I feel fully ready to receive this commitment?

• Am I open to healing whatever is standing in the way of my commitment?